Often the worst time to plan and think about something is when it’s already happening. Spend fifteen minutes reading about and planning the actions you’d take in the event of you going through either a break up or a bereavement. Post your plans.
3 Replies to March 13's Challenge
Keep as busy as possible so not to linger on the situation.
However ensure you face up to it, don’t ignore it like it never happened as this makes it even harder to deal with. Acknowledge the situation, even if you need to take a break for a while, make sure to face up to it.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 14 months in january and i never wanted to see him again. It was terrible and I refused to think about him or acknowledge his existence. As we had the same group of friends it was hard to always avoid him. However after about a month we met again and I realised it is easier to get over him if I accepted that we went out but now its over and we could be friends. I still think about him a lot and relive the fun times we had when we were together, and I know Im not completely over him but I now have new fun, friend memories which makes up for the lost old ones and makes it easier.
Jess
March 13th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
It’s been 12 days since *daily* 15 has put up a post. What’s going on here?
Keep as busy as possible so not to linger on the situation.
However ensure you face up to it, don’t ignore it like it never happened as this makes it even harder to deal with. Acknowledge the situation, even if you need to take a break for a while, make sure to face up to it.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 14 months in january and i never wanted to see him again. It was terrible and I refused to think about him or acknowledge his existence. As we had the same group of friends it was hard to always avoid him. However after about a month we met again and I realised it is easier to get over him if I accepted that we went out but now its over and we could be friends. I still think about him a lot and relive the fun times we had when we were together, and I know Im not completely over him but I now have new fun, friend memories which makes up for the lost old ones and makes it easier.
March 13th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
It’s been 12 days since *daily* 15 has put up a post. What’s going on here?
March 25th, 2009 at 12:19 am
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April 2nd, 2009 at 5:33 pm